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Village personalities (No 5)
Daphne was one of three daughters of Al Bailey of Saxon Street, haulage contractor and former landlord of The King's Head at Dullingham, and she sometimes made visits to Oak Farm. Most of the German P.o.W.s worked well and were valued by the farmers. As Christmas 1946 approached someone suggested that it would a nice gesture of goodwill and reconcilliation to invite the prisoners into the farmhouse to share Christmas Day. Despite the language problems the day turned out to be a memorable occasion, especially for Sepp and Daphne, with the Germans singing their own carols and the English theirs.
In 1949 Sepp was allowed by the authorities to return home to Bavaria but was given a free return ticket with the option of coming back to England to work if he wished. He stayed with his family, but kept up a correspondence with Daphne and after a while the two decided to marry. Sepp's parents strongly disapproved of him marrying an English girl and a Protestant to boot, but love triumphed and they were married in Wood Ditton Church on 29th December 1951.
At first Sepp and Daphne lived in a flat at Newmarket but by 1952 they had moved into a new bungalow in Cheveley. Sepp was working as a lorry driver for his wife's father who had several lorries.
Al died in 1964 and for a while Daphne's mother carried on the haulage business before it became too much and and she had to sell up. Sepp bought one of the lorries and this started the couple off as self-employed haulage contractors. As the business prospered they were looking around for more space to park their lorries and in 1974 The Mill House at Wood Ditton came on the market. This suited them fine as it had the seclusion and the space they needed. They took the opportunity and have never regretted it.
Today Sepp and Daphne are enjoying their retirement in the charming old house and garden, with the stump of the old windmill close by. They have two daughters, both teachers, and one grandaughter. Sepp is a popular figure locally and they have many friends in the village and district, including Jack and Doris Scrivener who are featured on these pages in No 3 in the series of Village Personalities. There are parallels in the lives of Sepp and Jack in that they both joined their country's forces in 1939, but on opposing sides. Both became prisoners of war but Sepp was lucky to have been capured by the British where the treatment he received was infinitely better than that meted out to Jack.
Looking back on the war Sepp muses: "What a waste, all due to human greed for possessions". Indeed Sepp and Jack are reminders of the folly of war, when ordinary people are set against each other, who given the chance would be friends.

Daphne & Sepp at home at The Mill House
Other Village Personalities
No 2 - Freda Swann
No 3 - Jack & Doris Scrivener
No 4 - Beryl Woollard
No 7 - Ivor & Iris Brown
No 8 - Roy & Jill Steggles
No 9 - Derrick & Veronica Aspland
No 10 - The Revd. Ann Gurner
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